Saturday, March 21, 2009

It's Madness I Tell Ya!

March Madness is in full swing here in the Backes household. That means, lots and lots of tv, checking the internet, phone calls from 'fans', and extra sounds not typically heard every day. Sounds like hands slapping the carpet, mumbles, etc. Some of those can be good, some can be bad.
Things aren't nearly as interesting as they used to be. I had gotten used to (well, sorta) the yelling, hand clapping, and pacing. I'm not sure where this restraint of his has come from but at least it won't wake up the kids!
It's the annual wave we ride every March. As long as his team is on top and our arch rival (you know who I'm talking about) is losing, we're all happy - so go get'em TARHEELS!!!

oh yeah, i love me some Carolina too! :) Happy Madness Everybody!

Coincidence...I think not

I don't believe in chance, coincidence, whatever you want to call it. You heard me right. As a born again believer, I believe that our lives are in the control of the Almighty Creator who places us in situations or puts people in our paths at just the right time and place. Yes, we have free will to either ignore or follow the Spirit's leading, but too many things have happened in my life to just chalk up to "coincidence".

For example: On Valentine's Day, I was at my daughter's school setting up for the 2nd grade party and needed to walk over to the other building to get more lemonade. In the hallway I passed by a person whose blog I had been reading then for several months but had never left a comment on even though I was thoroughly enjoying it. Even in my hurry I felt led to stop and introduce myself and let her know I was following (I had signed up to follow, just not commented up to this point). She wanted to know if I had a blog, to which I replied yes, but had just started. She began reading and we became fast bloggy friends.
On her 100th post, she listed the '100 things about me', and on one of them I nearly fell out of my chair! You see, over the past two years I had felt like God had given me an idea that kept coming back over and over again that I either ignored or forgot about. She had been given the same exact desire and I firmly believe the Lord had us cross paths that day for this specific reason. I quickly contacted her and she told me of another friend, who I happened to also know, who had the same idea too and this past week we finally all got together to begin talking.

Here we are, Jeanette, Amy, and myself, meeting for the first time to discuss an adoption and orphans ministry at our church. Say what you will, but this was just too perfect a situation to have just happened the way it did, this was God! (It was St. Patrick's day by the way and we all had our green on!)

Another example: At our little get together, Amy asked if we had seen the movie Firepr**f. Nope not yet. This was the second time in a week that I had been asked this question by two different people. That afternoon, a third inquiry about this movie came my way. Okay, God, you obviously want me to see this movie. So tonight, our friends came over and we watched it while our kids played. WOW! Very good movie! If you haven't seen it, go watch it...now!...go! Thanks, J & V for sharing.

There are more examples, too many to share, but do you see what I mean? It's like pieces to a puzzle that all fit together to create something bigger than ourselves. God is at work all around us, in all the little details of our lives (which I love because I'm a detail person). I don't want to miss any opportunities He has for me, I want to see Him in everything!

Saturday, March 14, 2009

Daddy-Daughter Princess Ball

Tonight was our school's Daddy/Daughter Princess Ball and Rex and Madeline dressed in coordinating outfits. They were so cute! Rex even surprised her with a wrist corsage and we said it was like a preview to her prom - Daddy will be going to that dance too!

When they got home they told me what a fun time they had. Ahhh...makin' memories with Daddy.

Wednesday, March 11, 2009

Happy Birthday Kenan!

Our little man turns 2 today! I'm always thankful that he's a part of our lives, but especially today I'm thankful that his birth mom chose life. I wonder if she's thinking of him...I'm sure she is. I pray that she feels peace and knows that he's being loved and pampered. She helped give us one of our most priceless gifts and I hope she can feel how much we love her too.

Happy 2nd Birthday Kenan! Your whole family just adores you!

Tuesday, March 10, 2009

Job Update...

Just wanted to share a praise with the faithful few who check in. Rex started a contract job yesterday with a mortgage company here. It's only for the month of March but it will help to supplement his severance until something permanent is offered. We're still praying for that to happen so please continue to lift us up and we'll keep you posted. Thanks for your prayers that have already been said.

Snow Day in my Winter Wonderland

The last time it snowed, there really wasn't much to do anything with. So this time, since we got nearly 6 inches, we made sure to build a big snowman and have a snowball fight.
















Our backyard makes for a great sledding hill. With the rain a few days before, the river was up and more muddy than usual but it still looked like a winter wonderland.









It's hard to believe that we've had three snow days so far this year. This last one was definitely one to remember, but I think I'm done now and ready for spring.

Sunday, March 8, 2009

1st Gotcha Day & Homecoming Anniversary

Life has been extra busy the past week or two so I'm just now getting around to sharing pictures from our first anniversary celebrations with Kenan.

Forever Family

We had wanted to go out to eat at a Guatemalan restaurant and even enlisted the help of a friend to find a place but there just aren't any in this area. So instead we went to the next best thing and our favorite, Monterrey. Kenan enjoyed his chips and salsa and we even got dessert, fried ice cream!











That Saturday we went to a Sunday School social so we decided to bring a dessert to commemorate the occasion, cookie cake! Another favorite at our house.











We look forward to many more celebrations in the years to come!